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One similarity between men and women for a tushy massage is that some sort of lubricant needs to be used when massaging their buttocks, this will make the experience more pleasurable and prevent sore spots from developing.
Another difference between men and women is that one may use oil-based,water based, or silicone-based lubricants on men, while one should use only water-based lubricants on women to avoid encouraging vaginal infections. For genital massage on men, or for massage elsewhere on a man or woman’s body, you can purchase special massage oils at massage supply shops or else just use a light vegetable oil (such as Safflower, Sunflower, or grapeseed) from the supermarket. Lubricants and oils should be reapplied as necessary, so it’s good to keep them handy.
It’s very convenient to have flip-top squeeze bottles for lubes and oils, and one of those massage oil “belts” that massage supply shops sell. Since many of these belts have two pockets, you could use one for lube and the other for massage oil. Be sure lubes and oils are warm before putting them on someone; if you wish you can run hot tap water over your flip-top bottles for a few minutes before using them, or maybe you could just keep the plastic bottles in a bowl of warm water instead of using a belt. It’s also a good idea to put
lubricants in your hand before applying them and starting your tushy massage so you have a chance to rub your hands together to warm them if necessary.
Oh, and one final word of advice for your tushy massage: please be sure any water-based lube you may be using DOESN’T contain Nonoxynol-9. In this context Nonoxynol- 9 is unlikely to do anything but irritate.
During both the relaxation and genital phases of your erotic massage it’s important for the person on the table to always feel comfortable making requests and comments. He or she should feel free to mention anything that is getting in the way of his or her
comfort and pleasure. Requests to go to the bathroom, for touch to be harder or lighter, to take a break or stop, for the heat to be turned up, etc., are all signs that levels of communication and trust are high. They are also signs that the receiving partner is paying
attention to his or her feelings, which is a key to experiencing greater and greater tushy massage pleasure.
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